1. Defining myself.
When initially setting up my profile on these dating sites, I had a lot of trouble coming up with what to say in the “About Me” box, and I found it equally hard to choose a profile photo. I am so much more than what these profiles could ever project to a potential date – I can have a different look every day of the week, and I can’t sum myself up in 160 words or less. I feel the same way about my Facebook profile. What I post online is only a fraction of me (and for good reason), so if you think you know me just because we’re Facebook friends or because of what you read on my dating profile, think again.
Because of this, a guy who comes across my profile may instantly be turned off by one of the things I reveal about myself – whether it’s my favorite movie, my disdain for cats, or the fact that I don’t smoke. He’s only seeing bits and pieces of me, so that’s all he has to go on. But, if I were to meet this same guy in real life, he’d be finding out things about me more slowly, which might give him the chance to decide, “Yea, it sucks her favorite movie is that stupid chick flick The Girl Next Door, but her laugh totally makes up for it, and I want to find out more about her.”

2. Being shallow.
In the same respect, I am making split-second decisions on guys based solely on their profile pictures. If you don’t closely resemble my dream husband – blond hair, blue eyes, tanned and toned muscles, killer white smile – then sorry! I don’t care if you did “wink” at me, you’re just not my type. Full Story

1. Revisit an old fave

“Bring back the hand job!” says Ryan. “There’s nothing so amazing as really handling your partner’s bits.”
While a lot of women left the hand job behind with high school graduation, it’s a fun way to spice up the bedroom menu.
“You don’t always have time or energy for sex, and blow jobs are really taxing,” she says. “This is a great way to give pleasure to your partner.”

2. Learn from the master

What better way to understand what makes your man happy than to watch him pleasure himself?
“If you can get your partner to touch himself while you watch, you can really get a great insight into what he likes,” she says. “Some people are a little shy, but it can be a very beautiful way to learn.”
And of course that goes both ways. Your guy will most likely want to watch your solo show, as well. Full Story

Source: Santabanta.com

Source: Santabanta.com

Ever since Aisha was announced, you are telling that the character is very much like off-screen Sonam Kapoor…
Ya…there are similarities between Sonam and Aisha…I too am a girl trying to become a woman…I am not quoting Britney Spears (laughs). But then, there are differences as well. I started working at the age of 18 and I don’t spend Papa’s (Anil Kapoor) money, unlike popular belief.

Aisha is based on Jane Austin’s Emma. Have you seen the Hollywood version of the film where Gwyneth Paltrow played the protagonist?
Yes…I have seen it and Paltrow is one of my favourite actresses. But her’s was completely based on the novel…set in the same era; mine is about today’s time. But then, Paltrow did a great job and of course, done a better job than I have…she is a better actress.

Your younger sister Rhea turns producer with Aisha. How was it working with her?
She is cute and I love her…she is an extremely pragmatic human being. Rhea was the biggest boss and dictator on our sets, so much so that we completed shooting two days before our schedule.

We worked like dogs and wrapped up in 67 days instead of 69, which is quite unheard of in Bollywood. Also, she made us complete the film in budget…Papa and PVR Cinemas were very happy. She has great leadership qualities.

During the shooting of Aisha, there were lots of speculations that you and co-actor Abhay Deol are a couple. How far was that true?
You tell me…you only said they were ’speculations’. Abhay is awesome…a great actor and I would like to act with him again and again. We get along like a house on fire…all I have to do is to sulk a little and he will give me whatever I want. Full Story